Fighting with Spouses

Hi Abba. Andy and I got into a pretty hurtful argument the other day. This losing weight stuff has had me pretty emotional lately, I find I cry really easily. I'm not sure if that's because of the extra estrogen being given off during fat burning or what's going on. But, I noticed even last night that we were both pretty standoffish to one another. We weren't arguing or anything, but we were both quiet and not very touchy feeling with one another. Please help us to understand one another and know what the other needs from each other. This marriage stuff is so hard sometimes.